Detaching From Your Desires

When we want something, it is natural to think about it a lot. We think of how getting this thing will make us happier or solve a particular problem we may have. We also think a lot about how it is going to happen. We try to figure out all the possible ways which it will get delivered to us. We may have a lot of negative energy surrounding the desire, such as worrying that we will not get what we want. In certain situations, such as needing money, we imagine all of the bad things that will happen if we do not get it.

The thoughts and feelings that surround our desires play a huge role in determining how quickly we get these things or if we even get them at all. We need to charge these desires with strong, positive energy that says these things are already ours, that they will come to us in some shape or form.

One of the most important factors in getting what we want in life is detaching ourselves from them. We make our intentions clear and we send it out to the Universe, God or whatever you want to call that amazing energy that connects everything in this world.

When we hear about detaching from our desires, what that exactly means may not be clear to people so I will explain it as I see it, as it has worked for me. When we think about the things we want, we can create different energies. When we are in a good space, thinking of the things we want, that creates an energy that brings them closer. This space is filled with wonderful things like faith and trust. Anytime you can think about what you want in this type of high energy, go for it. But, the key is, you must do your best not to undermine this energy with negative thoughts and feelings and this is where the detachment comes in.

You must do your best to develop faith that you will get your desired outcome and reduce negative thinking and feelings surrounding your desires as much as possible. We are all guilty of this sometimes. We look at our current circumstances and we doubt that we will be able to move from them to the place we want to be, the leap just seems too far. We rely on logical thinking, which can kill our dreams faster than anything else because we try to figure out how these things will happen and we cannot possibly know the million different ways that it can. The logical thought leads to doubt, fear and worry, energies that repel.

By detaching, you know it will be taken care of. You let the Universe or whatever you call that permeating force do its job. This does not mean you do nothing, however. Take inspired action that feels good, that will help you reach your goal. If you want to be a writer for example, no amount of good feeling will actually write the book for you. You need to try and feel as good as you can even if nothing on the outside gives you a logical reason to feel good – you do not have to get deliriously happy but just feel as good as you can.

You will likely have moments when you will not heed all of this, I do too. If we were perfect manifesting machines, we would already have all the things we want. We are contending with a lot of negative programming that does not disappear overnight. Forgive yourself in these moments and do the best you can to shift them. The good news is, as long as your positive energy outweighs the negative energy, you are moving in the right direction. Decide what it is you want, charge it with good feelings and know it is done. Do not worry about the ‘’how’’, that is something you cannot possibly even begin to figure out.


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